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      <image:caption>3am, wide awake from jet lag, we walked to Trevi Fountain and had it completely to ourselves. Daytime there is miserable, this is the only way we'd go back.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rome's Christmas atmosphere leading up to the holiday really did live up to the reputation, even with the crowds.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Even at 9:30 at night, the bricks were still radiating the day's heat, fans running just to make outdoor dining bearable.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rome in summer isn't just hot, it's crowded like this at nearly every major site, this one from the 2023 trip with the Sieben family.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Three years later we went back, this time with eleven family members in tow, on our anniversary. That's just how we operate. When we want something, we make it happen, and we've always done it as a team.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Italy, four times now, touring the major cities by cruise and by land. We've brought friends, family, and neighbors along plenty of those times too. Every single trip, paid for in full before we ever left. That's eleven years of proof that the plan works.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How We Decide What to Buy - Reading the ads before we shop, not after Pennies here, pennies there</image:title>
      <image:caption>At the grocery store specifically, we're conscious of unit price almost automatically at this point, pennies here and there add up to real money off the bill over a month. Some of that goes back to the extreme couponing years, learning to read sales ads and actually understand sales cycles, when something's likely to be cheap and when it isn't, and not falling for the layout tricks stores use to get you to spend more than you planned. We go in with a purpose. Still, we have a rule for the honest reality of grocery shopping: things fall in the cart. Not on the list, not planned, just an impulse buy or a craving in the moment. We keep it to a minimum, but we don't pretend it doesn't happen. And when our granddaughter Sofia is with us, that rule loosens considerably, and we're both fine with that.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This isn't just a grocery habit either. We still watch for deals everywhere, including fast food, where a coupon can turn a $12.29 meal into a $6 one, half off, without giving up the meal itself. That's actually the only reason we went to Burger King that day, we wouldn't have gone at all without the coupon. Eating out is a luxury for us, not a habit, and it's one we genuinely can't afford very often. Even when we do treat ourselves, we're still cautious about it. It's the same instinct as the sale flyer, just applied somewhere most people don't think to look.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My dad died in 2023. Very suddenly. He'd barely had two years of retirement before he was gone. He and my mom had talked for years about buying an RV and driving to all fifty states, they'd taken a few smaller RV trips here and there, just never the real thing, never the big one. They always figured there'd be time. There wasn't. That dream died with him, and my mom was left to figure out who she is now, without the future they'd built together, and without a new dream of her own yet to replace it.</image:caption>
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